Of Ethical-Gorean 'Her' place is as defined by your stated vision; and, in 'her' wholehearted acceptance of it. If it is not accepted with the strength to undertake and succeed within the all encompassing embrace of the heart's mirth and light; then, DO NOT proceed! If you do proceed, let it be then in that understanding of communicated Integrity of Word, Intent and, Peacefulness. There is choice; and too an inherent edurance of constancy to both self and others. Here, known, laid bare, there is no in-between. Come free of your own strife. Come now unarmed but, in the gentle spirit-strength of an inbonded kajira-of-flowering life. Come in the trust of the purity of quiet and loving; which is that, which embodyies the gem of a kajira of will. Coffee waits. (27 February '17)